Sunday, July 5, 2015

Attitude: Something that really defines a person.

 Many of you after reading the title would be thinking......."So Boring It Is!!" and as far as I know people around me, some of them would be so busy in preparing for IIT-JEE (Advanced/Main) and the rest would be busy in enjoying their lives to the fullest as they have recently completed their Class-12 as well as their School Life.

One Thing that I want to advise you all is to please read  this post as it may help you to crack whichever exam you want (it can only give you a psychological support, no guide and no notes but something much important than those)  and it can even help you in living your life to the fullest.

First Of all, before continuing reading the post, close your eyes and just think about what you did yesterday, today and also what you want to do tomorrow. Now, think about all your targets or things you want to do and analyze whether all things that you have done, really helped in making you reach close to your destination? If Yes, it is good but if No, it is not that bad also as you can make things better in whatever time left.

Now when you have done this open your eyes and look towards your own life as a story of some other guy, understand all his problems and try to give a solution to his problems. My own experience tells that this trick works but the only thing is believe in it and try it out with a true heart.

I again request if you have not performed this act suggested by me then please try it before you  continue to read this post. If already done, Sorry for doubting you and please ignore and continue to read this post.


The above trick helps to understand one`s problem better and also makes the person to reach the cause of the problems in his life. This trick also help many times to even get a solution to the problem by the same person who faces it which I think is the best thong in life.
 

A single word logic behind this trick is ATTITUDE.
The reason behind that you were able to reach the cause and find a solution to all you problems is that you now think of the situation as the third person. Now, your aim is  not to complete the daily task and work quickly in the long run but is only to give a solution to the problem. It is how our mind is programmed, if it is focused on only one thing at a time it is able to do it properly and accurately but if multitasking is done then there is a probability that you will complete all your task but would not be able to fully get the taste of everything and could also not understand what you actually did.

Many People are good at giving solution to other people but are not able to manage their own life perfectly. I was also a similar case. Then i needed to think the other way to solve my own problems understanding that my attitude help me to solve problems but only if worked without pressure. This is also the case with almost everyone the only thing that differs is the level of pressure to which one can perform well.

Attitude need not to be changed, as it is very difficult in a short period of time but if you alter you attitude then you can increase the output and hence make your decisions a way more efficient. The only thing is change your thoughts, your attitude will definitely support you as it is your own attitude off-course.

 The last and the most important thing is to overcome laziness in your attitude, as it is the biggest enemy in your life. Note,,,Laziness is a behavior and your attitude is directly related to your behavior and vice-verse. How do you decide whether to to do a job or not?......I have a really better trick for this also. Firstly think whether it is good for you or whether it is a necessary one. If yes, then again think about your views about it, do you want to do it? If the thing is important or necessary and you still do not want to do it.....then friend it is very sorry to say but your attitude reflects a lazy behavior in it.
In such conditions you know what to do...........overcome your laziness for once in the beginning and believe me doing this initially would eliminate laziness from your attitude. The most easiest way to overcome laziness is just perform the task you don`t wanted to without thinking more and within seconds you make your laziness meet defeat on the ground.

I hope you liked this. Thanks for giving your worthy time reading this.......
 I also request you all to please share your views in the comments dialogue box below.

My next blog would be purely for all my friends interested to know how to prepare for JEE Mains to get into a good college.

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4 comments:

  1. Okay u r ryt. ..bt still m nt able to ovrcme my laziness :(

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  2. I said that complete the task for which you feel lazy, without thinking anything else without even sparing a second.......if you did this you would have overcome your laziness by now. But if you are not able to do that action then my advice is stop thinking that you are lazy, stop thinking that you would not be able to do the work just simply do that........without thinking anything else:)

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    1. Bt if dt wrk is least intrstng dn wt to do..

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  3. Madhur what if we are clear abt our goals and noe wat to do in life bt still not able to work due to confusion lyk what or how or when to start..

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